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If we talk about taboo think of anal sex. Though not often talked about in public, anal sex is exciting, fun and stimulating to a great many people. Most people find that anal sex is a tremendous tool to enhance their regular sex activities and in a majority of cases, the actual anal sex is used in conjunction with a variety of other sexual activities and positions.
But because there is a very fine line between pain and pleasure during anal sex, we suggest that you begin your anal explorations very slowly. It's a good idea to start with some external stimulation, either using a finger or with a little analingus. Make sure you have plenty of lubrication, as even the slightest bit of dryness can cause a very painful snag.
You'll find that long lasting oil based lubricants work best for anal sex, but the drawback for oil based lubricants is that they will damage a latex based condom. Water based lubricants will get the job done, but you may need to reapply frequently during anal sex.
Begin insertion by using a finger or other small object. Proceed little by little, carefully watching the reaction of
your partner. The key is to relax the anus and the sphincter - breathing outward during insertion can help quite a bit here. The more
your partner relaxes, the easier insertion is. Remember: discuss it
with partner, make it comfortable, relax and do it slowly.
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